wow. you opened up pandora's box with this one. quick life story. married at 22 when i was 3 months pregnant with twins. felt i didn't have a choice, had to because i was pregnant. left him when twins were 6 months old because i couldn't take the bull shit anymore. he would spend most of the weekends at the bar, not help with the twins, etc. was a single mom for about 6 years. even though it was rough at times, i loved it. just me and my kids, i couldn't ask for more. then one day, i lost my mind. i fell for someone who seemed great. treated me wonderful. i got married. after almost 3 years i feel so stupid. :wallbang: i was happy alone. sure, there were times when i felt lonely, but they didn't last very long. now i am rarely happy. a relationship is work, it takes alot of energy to keep it working, and in the end what for? i have been a loner since i can remember and prefer to be alone. i do believe that some people are destin to be alone because that is when they are at their best. they are most comfortable that way. if that is your way :bravo: you go girl. you are living the way i wish i would have stuck with. men say and do things to get you hooked, and once your in the boat, it all changes. i didn't learn this lesson the first time. :wallbang:
best wishes to you and enjoy your space, your freedom, and your choice to be alone.
Relationship Shit
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wow. you opened up pandora's box with this one. quick life story. married at 22 when i was 3 months pregnant with twins. felt i didn't have a choice, had to because i was pregnant. left him when twins were 6 months old because i couldn't take the bull shit anymore. he would spend most of the weekends at the bar, not help with the twins, etc. was a single mom for about 6 years. even though it was rough at times, i loved it. just me and my kids, i couldn't ask for more. then one day, i lost my mind. i fell for someone who seemed great. treated me wonderful. i got married. after almost 3 years i feel so stupid. :wallbang: i was happy alone. sure, there were times when i felt lonely, but they didn't last very long. now i am rarely happy. a relationship is work, it takes alot of energy to keep it working, and in the end what for? i have been a loner since i can remember and prefer to be alone. i do believe that some people are destin to be alone because that is when they are at their best. they are most comfortable that way. if that is your way :bravo: you go girl. you are living the way i wish i would have stuck with. men say and do things to get you hooked, and once your in the boat, it all changes. i didn't learn this lesson the first time. :wallbang:
best wishes to you and enjoy your space, your freedom, and your choice to be alone.
Not all guys use charm, to sucker a woman in, some of us, are sensitive.
I have been in your boat (well minus the pregnacy).
My EX used me, just to get pregant, when she got her wish, she told me to get lost, when I told her I wanted to share in the raising of our child, Lori said " if you do not leave me, and MY child alone, I will have a restraining order put against you, and I will have you thrown in jail for beating me up. " I told her, that wont stick, I haven't ever laid a hand on you. She said, yes it will, I have used it before and the last clown is doing 18 months for assualt, and he didn't hit me either.
That'll be four years ago this Christmas, yeah she kicked me out on December 20th 2000.
So guys aren't the only asshole in a relationship. cause that shit works both ways.
best wishes to you and enjoy your space, your freedom, and your choice to be alone.
Not all guys use charm, to sucker a woman in, some of us, are sensitive.
I have been in your boat (well minus the pregnacy).
My EX used me, just to get pregant, when she got her wish, she told me to get lost, when I told her I wanted to share in the raising of our child, Lori said " if you do not leave me, and MY child alone, I will have a restraining order put against you, and I will have you thrown in jail for beating me up. " I told her, that wont stick, I haven't ever laid a hand on you. She said, yes it will, I have used it before and the last clown is doing 18 months for assualt, and he didn't hit me either.
That'll be four years ago this Christmas, yeah she kicked me out on December 20th 2000.
So guys aren't the only asshole in a relationship. cause that shit works both ways.
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Aurorealis
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That'll be four years ago this Christmas, yeah she kicked me out on December 20th 2000.There are too many out there just like this. It drives me insane to think about it. They should be exterminated. I apologize on behalf of my entire gender... Damn.
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There are too many out there just like this. It drives me insane to think about it. They should be exterminated. I apologize on behalf of my entire gender... Damn.
I dont hate women, I just would like to find someone who'll love me for my faults. damn-it I'm a guy, and we aint the easiest thing in the world to go for change.
I dont hate women, I just would like to find someone who'll love me for my faults. damn-it I'm a guy, and we aint the easiest thing in the world to go for change.
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Prince Galahad
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Re: Relationship Shit
i figure id post here to put some input
i am 20 and live on hawaii (most of you call it a paradise), prolly one of the youngest and been here for quite a while since i changed from legit to hexed mud community
i, being a gamer (rpger mostly), havent had much social interaction with the real world, and that caused me to miss out on alot and learn alot during life... my parents and older siblings always told me to grow up, be serious, and i kinda took that to heart and the end result wasnt very good in the long run, because i was just a kid at the time and during the years i slowly killed off certain emotions that would of made me weak (little did i know, that you cant kill emotions, it just felt like that because i didnt show it and had no reason to show it)... most of my friends from lunar only know how i act online, although if you really met me in real life, you wouldnt think that i am the Galahad that you all know
now for my relationship status, ive had a handful of relationships, all long distance online kind, however those never worked out and because i wasnt in the real world it kinda fucked me up mentally... now, im not saying that online fucks you over more than the real world, they both have their share of depressing and fucked up moments (yeah, ive tried having a relationship in real life, but like shaddow, most people shun those who arent perfect or good looking ESPECIALLY in todays society)
now, currently i am in yet another long distance relationship, but this one is differant from all the others... i never knew what true love was before this relationship, i never knew what it felt like to be loved and to love someone back, this girl i am with has changed me drastically and she is the only reason i am alive right now
yeah, some of you who know me might think that im not fucked up enough to do the whole suicide deal, iNViSiGOD knows, he was the one who told me to watch myself when i got into my current relationship cause he knew how unstable i was... i was sick and tired of being alone, i was sick and tired of seeing people my age be a couple, i was sick and tired of not being able to socialize with anyone my age or flow with my age group, i was just so sick of it.... that is, until i met my girlfriend, she cared about me before we even hooked up, when in a lost and confused state, and seeing that changed me and my way of thinking, that mabbe failing all these years was just a test to see if i would be able to wait until the proper time when fate would have it so that i would meet this girl
currently, me and my girl have been together for 5months 3weeks and 2days, the longest i been in yet, although not the longest most of you people have been in, i intend to make this one last a lifetime :biggrin2: :cool:
now, i understand everyone has had their rough times and have their own way of thinking and whatnot, this is just a little from me, the true Galahad, not the lamer flamer asshat punk bitch mouthy kid that most of you know me as
i am 20 and live on hawaii (most of you call it a paradise), prolly one of the youngest and been here for quite a while since i changed from legit to hexed mud community
i, being a gamer (rpger mostly), havent had much social interaction with the real world, and that caused me to miss out on alot and learn alot during life... my parents and older siblings always told me to grow up, be serious, and i kinda took that to heart and the end result wasnt very good in the long run, because i was just a kid at the time and during the years i slowly killed off certain emotions that would of made me weak (little did i know, that you cant kill emotions, it just felt like that because i didnt show it and had no reason to show it)... most of my friends from lunar only know how i act online, although if you really met me in real life, you wouldnt think that i am the Galahad that you all know
now for my relationship status, ive had a handful of relationships, all long distance online kind, however those never worked out and because i wasnt in the real world it kinda fucked me up mentally... now, im not saying that online fucks you over more than the real world, they both have their share of depressing and fucked up moments (yeah, ive tried having a relationship in real life, but like shaddow, most people shun those who arent perfect or good looking ESPECIALLY in todays society)
now, currently i am in yet another long distance relationship, but this one is differant from all the others... i never knew what true love was before this relationship, i never knew what it felt like to be loved and to love someone back, this girl i am with has changed me drastically and she is the only reason i am alive right now
yeah, some of you who know me might think that im not fucked up enough to do the whole suicide deal, iNViSiGOD knows, he was the one who told me to watch myself when i got into my current relationship cause he knew how unstable i was... i was sick and tired of being alone, i was sick and tired of seeing people my age be a couple, i was sick and tired of not being able to socialize with anyone my age or flow with my age group, i was just so sick of it.... that is, until i met my girlfriend, she cared about me before we even hooked up, when in a lost and confused state, and seeing that changed me and my way of thinking, that mabbe failing all these years was just a test to see if i would be able to wait until the proper time when fate would have it so that i would meet this girl
currently, me and my girl have been together for 5months 3weeks and 2days, the longest i been in yet, although not the longest most of you people have been in, i intend to make this one last a lifetime :biggrin2: :cool:
now, i understand everyone has had their rough times and have their own way of thinking and whatnot, this is just a little from me, the true Galahad, not the lamer flamer asshat punk bitch mouthy kid that most of you know me as