Relationships..I dont know where else to put this. [Archive] - ForumsHQ

[Raybdbomb]

nah i don't live in a cave, i happen to be in relationship that is working...

[War Hawk]

your hand doesn't count :)



and when did I say "ray, we don't like you" ?

[Reckless]

Originally posted by Ray Dillyo

nah i don't live in a cave, i happen to be in relationship that is working...





Yeah, didn't ya'll see dxpac propose and ray accept??? Sheesh! Such an unobservant bunch we have here.

[Brunt]

Well...we are going to clean up the computer room(The Den), and I am going to sleep in there.

[War Hawk]

Man, I think yah should honestly just find a friend that you can chill with or something... the best thing would probably be for you to get away from it all... Take a vacation from the insanity. If you are still living there, she'll still expect yah to do everything you did before... since its under 'her' roof kinda thing.



Women, can't live with em... can't live without em!

[Platinum]

I agree with War Hawk..she'll still be expecting you to do everything..



Then again, this could kind of get them talking about it all...the worst that could happen is she tell him to get out again, then he would have the same problem as before...it appears he knows enough people that he could find somewhere to stay.

[Brunt]

Yeah...I have places to stay, temporary...but I dont know about perm residence. Well...I guess Erin doesn't really care about me. She is trying to find someone to take her out...she doesn't want to spend time with me...I think she feels relief we are seperated. Now she can see other people and do whatever....oh well.

[War Hawk]

ouch... thats harsh :l then bring home other women... FRIENDS... not a g/f... but just friends... bet she'd flip her lid.... yet you stay cool when her guy friends come over... thats just bogus... but I dunno... I trust my g/f enough to where she wouldn't do that and I know she wouldn't :)



But screw gettin married... HA!

[Platinum]

That's a thing people go through..I garuntee she still has feelings for you, we all know she loves you. Things like this aren't easy..she just wants to get away. Whether she goes out with a guy or not, she won't be able to have a good time..



You aren't the only one thinking about this as much as you are. I garuntee she's got the same thing going through her mind, she'll realise that whoever she goes out with won't be able to fill your shoes. If what you had was real, then she just can't forget about it that easy. Same for you, you can't just not think about it..



Though Hayley is a high point of concern, I think the two of you should be trying to work things out first...if theres NO POSSIBILITY whatsoever that you'll get back together, worry about the kid. But if this is a thing that you can talk about and work out, theres no need to start with lawyers..that will just add fuel to the fire.



Do what you gotta, man..just do what you gotta. I hope everything works out for the both of you..Erin probably thinks by my past posts that I'm biased. I'm not, we have just only heard once side so that's the only side of the story I can comment on. Hell, Brunt and I have gone at it a few times in the past..that was over a game though.



Best of luck again..

[Reckless]

I think the problem is that she's having regrets about how her life has turned out and it's becoming a mental block for her. I don't know her and am not asserting this as the truth, merely a hypothesis. She doesn't regret having the child, but the combination of a child and for all intent and purposes a husband. This happens to a lot of women in the same situation.



As for her being mad about you posting this, I'd say she prolly is and is just trying to hurt you the way that she feels hurt judging by the reactions you've received.