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Xetox
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If she gets mad....tell her to come here and defend herself, lets C her side of the story!!!!



We will get this shit worked out one way or the other! ;)
Brunt
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Well..its to late now.



I have tried to talk to her about it..she gets defensive, and we start to agrue.



We just broke up.



ME: "I am not going to sleep with you(not sex, just sleep) if we are fighting.

HER: "We aren't fighting"

ME: "Well then, I am not going to sleep with you if we are arguing"

HER: "We aren't arguing, there is no relationship to argue about."

ME: "So then are we through then?"

HER: (cant remember..)

ME: "YES OR NO?!?!?"

HER: (cant remember)

ME: "YES OR NO?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?"

HER: "YES!"



So...I guess there is no more relationship.



She says that HOW she treats me..is her personal stuff.



Yet, she treats me like that in front of EVERYONE. How is that personal?



True, she is just mad because now I brought it out. I am not going to just take it anymore. I am not going to just let her sit on HER ASS all FUCKING day.



She wants someone to take care of her, so she can SIT ON HER ASS FUCKING DAY.



She blames ME for her depression, started like 1.5 years ago. HA!



How the FUCK did I start it? Did she say anything to me?



I have a problem...I try to talk to her about it, and SHE ALWAYS FUCKING TRIES TO TURN IT AROUND AND BLAME ME.



..............she hates me. There is no relationship.

I love her...but I cant FUCKING STAND IT ANYMORE.

She told me to get out. I dont know when I will post again, seeing is how I have NO FUCKING WHERE TO LIVE. Maybe from the King County library? lol



She has had 3 jobs in the past 3 years.

1) Eagle Tire & Automotive. Lasted a few months..helped pay to get my mustang fixed. Got laid off after 9-11.

2) Some place in the mall selling hair stuff, made good money. Worked there for 4 days.

3) Working now...lets see...1 hour a FUCKING MONTH at her church. Its not a job.



SHE BLAMES ME FOR EVERYTHING. HOW THE FUCK CAN THIS BE MY FAULT? BECAUSE I WORK SO MUCH? GET OFF YOUR ASS AND I WONT HAVE TO.



I told her.



1) Get a job during the day.

2) State will pay for daycare(low income)

3) I will get a job during the day.

4) All gone during the day, ALL FUCKING HOME AT NIGHT.



I am tired of it. I AM TRYING TO DO THE BEST I CAN, AND SHE SITS THERE AND BLAIMS ME FOR EVERYTHING. NOT HELPING BLAH BLAH BLAH FUCKING BLAH.
Rust In Peace

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Post by Rust In Peace »

Sorry to hear that Brunt. Gotta do what's best for you. No reason forcing a relationship.. that shit never works. Hope everything works out for you.
Brunt
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Yeah well...I dont know whats going to happen to Hayley. Thats my main focus right now.
Brunt
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Post by Brunt »

Originally posted by Xetox

If she gets mad....tell her to come here and defend herself, lets C her side of the story!!!!



We will get this shit worked out one way or the other! ;)



She cant come and defend herself. Her WHOLE excuse would be to BLAME me. ITS ALL MY FAULT.



She doesn't do JACK SHIT, BECAUSE OF ME. ITS ALL MY FAULT.



Ask her..she will tell you, its all my fault.
Brunt
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Post by Brunt »

I love you Erin. I will miss what we had. Lets just try and focus on Hayley right now.
STFU

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Post by STFU »

doesn't anyone understand? if these two bright-eyed lovers can't get along in this world, what hope is there for the rest of us?
Raybdbomb
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Post by Raybdbomb »

that's messed up man... why do people fight? i mean i see there is a problem, but why doesn't she want it mended? i can't understand that... if somethin were wrong with me or there was a problem with my relationship, i would do what i could to keep it, especially if i had a child in it...



i just don't get it =\
syntax53
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Post by syntax53 »

Originally posted by Ray Dillyo



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i like ya ray :)
Xetox
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Originally posted by STFU

doesn't anyone understand? if these two bright-eyed lovers can't get along in this world, what hope is there for the rest of us?





First off, I am sorry Brunt, if there anything I can do just let me know!



Second, Ray do u live in a cave or what??? Have you not any real world knowledge?



The world is fucked up now, women are even more fucked up! Shit happens.



O and Brunt one of my best friends just went thourgh a battle with his ex old ladie for the custady of there child.....and guess what He won!!!! he was in the same shit u are in and he one, he has his son 10 months out of the year!!!



So just goes to show ya the child don't always go with the mother now!
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