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[Raybdbomb]

i think you guys need some aragon intervention



let aragon have her for a week, then she'll be begging to do anything for being with you ricky...



and btw..







ray, we don't like you



ray we don't like you





ray(,) we don't like you

[porkinbone]

Oh ya, something else, while your at work guys go and party with your wife and kid at your house??? Dude, I don't care how much I trust my friends and wife, shit happens. If she cant get shit done, she don't have time to party anyways. I have been through it all... I would never again allow my woman to party with some dudes when I'm not there. If I'm at work, she better be workin, on the house(ALONE) or at a job makin dough. Thats not being jealous, thats what she vowed to you when you got married. Just my 2 cents.

[Brunt]

Originally posted by Ray Dillyo

i think you guys need some aragon intervention



let aragon have her for a week, then she'll be begging to do anything for being with you ricky...



and btw..





ray we don't like you





ray(,) we don't like you [/QUOTE]



lol I doubt that...he will spoil her..buy her things while she doesn't do anything...



and BTW, Yes..we have a kid, I wouldn't leave her because of the kid, it would be because she is pissing me off. I have raised Hayley for over 2 years now...Hayley is not the problem. Its Erin.

[Raybdbomb]

well, here's what you should do....



butter her up with some romance, some Marvin Gaye or whatever his gay ass name is in the backround, candlelight dinner with some champagne or whatever, and tell her afterwards right before you get at it, that if she doesn't do somethin, she won't get any :P



i'm like her (from what you've said), i'm a lazy, fat (- fat for her i guess =\) ass... i won't do anything unless i'm motivated

[Brunt]

Well..I have tried $$ to motivate her, even if I did 1 night of romance, going all out..she MIGHT do something for a few days...then go back



I had a PM, and I agree with it.



She is depressed(doesn't act like it around people, or me though), but she has all the signs.



We have talked about that too though...she wont get help. I dont know what to do.



This will work out.

[Xetox]

all I can say is.....um nothing never had to worry about it!!!



Thats why I dont have kids!

[Brunt]

Kids have nothing to do with it..I dont think she is depressed because of Hayley..if anything, she makes Erin feel better...she makes me feel better..she is a good kid(Thank God).

[Xetox]

yea no doubt....but if it was not for the child, you could just say f it and leave the relationship behind!

[Brunt]

Yeah...I realize this, but...I still dont want to leave. I want to help her through anything. We aren't married..but that doesn't mean we dont want to be...honestly, marriage is just a celebration. We have all of that, just haven't had the celebration....YET.

[porkinbone]

dude, listen. She's depressed cause she sits at home all day with nothing to do. This causes serious depression and will really change a person( I noticed my wife changing as she sat). She needs something to do. Unfortunately for you, though, she doesn't seem to be able to find something to do for herself. She probably doesn't even know that the reason she is so depressed and mopey is cause she sits at home(cause she's depressed and mopey). You have to shake her ass up and get her to think. After the divorce, my x lost like 30 pounds(she looks better now than when I married her), went back to college, gets up in the morning, etc. I'm tellin you it'll work. She takes you for granted. The only way to show her what her life would be like without you is.....



Or you can just go home and fuck her brains out and love the hell out of her and hope that for some reason itll change. not like I know you or anything. Just sayin I been there. :)