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Well, alright everyone..Erin has left me. Honestly, I think it was a long time comming. Neither of us are really "upset" of the fact that we split up. I think we both really broke up long ago, and got over each other before we split. I am glad, however that Hayley still gets to see both of us and we aren't fighting about Hayley.



Right now things are still a little tense, but I think over time Erin and I can be great friends. I guess we tried to hard to make things work for to long when we should have ended it a long time ago. I feel that if we ended it a long time ago then we wouldn't fight as much as we do. I am not sure how long it will take for us to stop fighting 100%, but I am sure it will happen. We have gotten a lot better apart.



I feel that what Erin is doing right now, she has every right to do. She had Hayley young, and never did the things a 16-20 year old does. I never stopped her from doing any of these things..but either way, she is doing them now. So I hope she is happy.



I myself, have always wanted a family and I still feel I am a family man minus the wife. I think this is the main reason why Erin and I never got married. I think when I asked her to marry me we are on different terms...better terms. As time grew, we grew a part. I just dont think we are right for each other.



Who knows, we are both still young, she is 20 and I am 23...We will always have Hayley in common. Maybe in 5, 10, 20, 30...If I ever get to 50 and not married..I will be upset lol but maybe it was just to early for us.



I will always love Erin, and Erin will always love me. We just aren't "IN LOVE" anymore. It happens, and I would like to hear some replys on your experiences or comments. I tried not to make this bias for either side. Tell me if I am wrong..

I feel your pain. ;) I was adopted when I was 5, and never had the chance to really get to know my family until I was over 18. So I've always had this real strong feeling (urge) to have a family of my own. And I thought I'd found what I was looking for in my ex, Carrie. I'd just moved back to California from Texas to kick a serious meth addiction and was visiting an old friend of mine when I met Carrie. Right away I was hooked, and within a month we had moved in together. She had also just kicked the "shit", and we had alot of other things in common as well, it just seemed perfect. I hadn't found work yet, neither one of us had cars, and we were living in a 2 room straight up SHACK, but nothing could kill the life that she'd filled me with. I had grown very close to her son (from an ex-husband), he called me Daddy, and we were the perfect little family, I thought. I was dying to get married, even though we had started having problems, and her family was all for it. We even set a date, which came and went, no marriage. Long story short, she wasn't done partying yet, and I was long since past that point. Finally things got so bad I decided it was best for both of us if I left. So I moved out of the only "home" I've ever really felt was my own, left my dog, cat, bird, and "son" and moved in with some friends. It's been about 6 months since we broke up, we're both finally over everything (I think), and we're great friends who can talk about anything at all. I still love her with all my heart, and probably always will. Sure, it sucks that things went down the way they did, I really saw myself with her for the rest of my life. But I look at it this way: when we met we both had nothing, and over the course of our 2 1/2 year relationship we both got vehicles, good jobs, a nice house, kicked our addictions. Neither one of us could've done it alone, so even though I lost what I really wanted, I took something from the relationship that will help me through life. I also have a great friend who listens to everything I have to bitch about, and applauds my victories. Sorry bout the long ass message, but I read yours, Brunt, and just had to share my experience. You'll always love Erin, I'm sure, as she will you, and you have a child together, which binds you together for life. You may have lost someone you thought you'd have forever, but you're taking something away with you as well.

Thats true, thanks man :)

I dont think Erin is does partying, and I am..for the most part :)

I am having a party this friday...but I am not going out every night ;)

Sorry to hear about that:(

Yeah well...its ok :)

Erin found someone else to "cuddle" and be with..so I hope she is happy!



I am just going to focus on Hayley, college and getting my bills paid ;)

we aren't fighting about Hayley.







so, is it time to start freestyling in urban detroit?

Erin found someone else to "cuddle" and be with



she's just sayin that to make you jealous dude

No..I know he stays the night..and they do cuddle...