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Yeah well...she knows I REALLY DISLIKE her x-boyfriend. He got her into some trouble with me earlier. I dont let her talk to him..first day broken up, she calls him. I know she still has feelings for him.

No more posts from me..I am done with this thread.

man she's just doin that cause she knows it gets to ya...



that's harsh man... what a not nice thing to do

yeah i don't think i can participate in this thread anymore either... this has been really one sided and she'd prolly refuse to post on it much less even read it, so... yeah



and you guys oughta apologize or somethin man, i mean sure Brunt is my pal, but she's a person too. ya can't take sides in stuff like this, you have to remain as neutral as fekkin Switzerland...



i mean, not saying that she is depressed, but having us talk about it in the forums surely wouldn't help if she were... i dunno, i'm just thinkin about me personally if this had happened to me, i surely 1st wouldn't want it in a public forum and 2nd wouldn't want other people adding to the existing tension, or giving me reasons to be mad, y'know? so... c'mon guys, i don't care how fekked your relationships have been, let them try to work this out

whoa....Ray actually was helpful!! I'll be damned!!



But seriously, dont get to worked up with her calling her ex b/f or going out with other guys. shes trying to get your goat and get your excited. BUT (godforbid) she does have sex with another guy, then thats the time to call it quits and make the motions to see if you can get your daughter.

But to do that you have to have a permant place to live before you can even apply for guardianship

I just wanted you to get a woman's opinion. I think that this woman sounds very lazy and selfish. She obviously does not respect you if she can not even keep the house clean for you if she is not going to work. At the age she is, it shouldn't be that hard even with a bad back to do an hour's worth of house work each day. I disagree that you should keep trying. You should give her one chance to change and love and respect you as much as you are trying to do for her. If she doesn't change, don't keep trying and beating your head up against a brick wall. Forget about her, get a good lawyer, get custody of our kid and move on with your life and find a woman who will treat you right. The problem with so many men is that they get ruined by these peice of crap, lazy, manipulative woman, and these men fall in love with these women, and then can't get over them and treat any other girlfriends that are good to them like crap because they are still in love with the peices of crap. So, where do I find any single men???? :)

Originally posted by ArwenEvenstar

So, where do I find any single men???? :)



Depends on where ya live :D

now that was a good response.... a guy can't really say that (well ray can but...) ...





How yah doin there Brunt?

Don't feel bad runt I leave for the Airforce for the next year on Monday. 3 days ago Jess (the girl i been with for last 2 and a half years and mother of my month and a half son) told me she doesn't want a relationship with me anymore and she doesn't know what she wants anymore. I realize we are both still very young compared to the rest of you but about I'd say perhaps a month ago I had plans to marry her (with her knowing and consenting to these plans) and now she pulls this crap on me. She says shes mad at me but doesn't know why ( I do everything for this girl) shes not sure if shes even straight anymore and she refuses to write to me while I'm away.. These are just not the kind of things I need on my plate before I go away for 10 months you know? I don't know where to turn or what to do I have 3 days to try to fix things. Fuck last night I woke up at 2 AM cause I just couldn't sleep and walked almost 4 miles in -10 degree weather w/o a coat to her house just so I could be with her. She didn't even seem to notice the amount of care I have for her to do that having a natural hatred to walking and the cold. I almost got hit by 2 cars as well because I was walking along the busyiest road in my city. I'm not a depressed person nor do I like to whine about anything but mmud =P but stil I just fuckin don't understand women. I came back to her when I found out she was pregnant and stood up to the plate and took my place as Alarics father and have done the best damn job I could physically do and what do I get a kick in the fuckin balls. I seriously don't know what I'm gonna do when I come back home and find out she was or is with another guy/girl. I think I might end up going to jail for manslaughter or something, but then I think about my son and I can't leave him with no one. I dunno dude I try talking to her but she won't she just turns away and cries and there is nothing I can do. If I get mad then she gets even more mad at me so theres no point in me yelling or even attempting to cop an attitude because it just digs me into a deeper hole. Alls I can say is atleast Erin still wants to be with you(I think? I only read first 2 pages of this) and if she does and you love her then I dunno I'd give anything for Jess to just tell me. "Yeah Todd I'll marry you when you come home and we can have a happy little family together" because thats all I really want from her. Shes so afraid I'm gonna leave her again it makes me sad cause all she does is mope about me leaving her. She also thinks I'm going into the Airforce to leave her and I'm not going to come back when i keep telling her I'm going into it for her to make something of myself to support her and Alaric in a better lifestyle than what I could do here working at my bakery. The only advice I can think of is to let her know how much you care for her and see if that helps, it doesn't seem to help for me, but you never know. shrug I'm gonna miss you all while I'm gone mmb is great. I just hope I don't get sent to war when I'm done with my training (another of her fears) Well peace out all of you bastards I'll be back in a year!

Good luck Todd.. catch you in a year dogg..